I think it's telling that they all want to be leaders.
That's probably true (I don't know these people). Avoiding actions being interpreted in this way is one reason for reluctance to suggest things. Is this why suggestions are ignored? If that is the impression I have given then I can only apologise.
Time after time appeals for help are posted.
My point is that offers of help, sharing of information etc about other groups etc seem to get almost no response. It is frustrating.
Syd